Happy Independence Day

Freedom is not a right but a state of mind ...we must learn to live with .....it is bargain we make, to be free to make choices. Choices which write our destiny .... so it is bargain someone else made for us (by sacrificing their lives), choose appropriately. Make it work worth of it.

It is business....pure business......nothing else

Job or business...

This is the question most of us are puzzled with once in the lifetime unless ure a genius who know clearly what to do with this life.

Rest of us can either chose business or jobs, I don't know much about the people who have ended with business but I m telling here what I know when I ended choosing up a job after trying to solve this question after 3-4 years of constant self-introspection and analyzing the resources I have in hand to start a business. I was among the lot who feel they have everything to be a successful businessmen. But in the end u make a choice and have to follow it and I m doing the same.

In the short job-career I have seen (most of time happening to me rather than with others) jobs are no different from business. We all tend to believe in the businesses we are not required to work under someone else. In jobs people and ideas belong to other in short, others rule our life.

I m in job where attrition is very high, since my joining whole team has changed in matter of no time. Pressure keeps on building, you are required to be proactive rather than reactive, people takes huge bet on you obviously responsibility are going to be high. But in this exciting journey you are also constantly denied, ignored and most of time feel like part of nothing in this big cruel and unemphatic world.

We all feel this things are not there in business ask any person who is selling product of his own he feels same dejected, rejected, denied and ignored. Before starting a venture - ideas just float in mind when u give them touch of reality (which I believe is midas touch) everything falls. Even though you might makes good money, better than person in job but you now from your heart things are not same as they were dreamed.

But I have made this choice and i know freedom is state of mind rather than a thing which I have bargained in life. I m feeling still very much free with my ideas and myself as any established businessmen would be. I am constantly changing myself, my attitude and above all things around me (hopefully). One day I will be able to bring changes around the people around me. This is what I seek power to change.

I have seen people around me crumble in the pressure either they have chosen exit door (good for there ego)or they were shown they exit doors - but for me things sounded same in the end they were not good enough in place. I have experienced my every belief getting trashed by their criticism or by my ego (that I m good enough).

I started feeling so low that I felt - I doesn't matter to anyone in this world. Reasons: sometimes they were wrong, sometimes I couldn't change; sometimes they felt like every people are born with traits (and I don't have that) and some times I felt as if I m gods own child (even though still believe same).

But what we all fail to realize that like this real bad world this organizations existed before I was born. Neither this world nor this organizations were created by me I just fallen over here whether I suits there scheme of things or not. Things often change but you should be well capable of bringing the change. Everything might seem wrong but every wrong have reason (occasionally they are accidental. We have to be more empathic toward this systems, world and organizations. Changes have to brought in more democratic way.

Like it is business profit for everyone .....nothing else will work. Systems are always upgraded for better versions. Sudden shift to newer systems makes older one loose its identity which most of the times doesn't work even change have its own pace we have to patient. Change is brought by fearless and not cowards so we can't loose belief in our self. But Change start from within so we can't be rigid.

They Sucks....

Some people thinks they are above all, they have found out formula to live a happy life. Others should either live life like them or follow.

But in doing so they don't accept one thing that every individual is different, emotions might be same (i believe emotions are universal and way intensity is felt is different from person to person.

By behaving like that they kills other individuality ... they sucks.

Song playing in mind: We don't need education (pink floyd)

Good and Bad !!!

Good and Bad what is that? Do they really exits?

When u will burn a piece of paper it will leave some ash, weight of that ash will be much lighter than paper u have burnt. Ever thought why because rest have gone away with smoke. Those atoms still remains in some other form.

Good and Bad are nothing but energy, emotions and feelings which have been part of you. They are just different side of the same coin. They are never mutually exclusive but dependent on each other. There cant be good without bad.

Yes good and bad are nothing but some set of notions which we have build with the way we have been bought up and series of incidence. Good and bad always depends on which side of line you are standing just cross that line your definition will change.

We will spend whole lot of our life in thinking of righteous way to live and life killing our second half thinking about reason of being in existence. But like start there is just one thing which will remain static that is our end, in between we will travel hard to seek something which will not remain with us in the end as if it was not ours.

As a society we create some notion being like minded we make rules. This rules should change with growth of this like minded people, but slowly our society becomes obsessed with rules.

Loneliness........

I am born alone and will die so. In between i will meet many, will try to exchange my souls. But it is just what you see will be getting along, in core i will be alone.

When I was born i didnt knew what was good or bad. It was you who taught me that. Now I feel abbrrant bcoz now i see none, It is just truth which remains in end.

I begin this journey to evolve, now I feel why i had begun. There will be nothing which will remain. In between i will loose and find myself thou, again alone.

Letting go.................by Shekar Kapur

It's when love turns to need. Its when love becomes more desire than nurture and caring. Its when love turns in into possesion and then into obsession. It's when you say 'you belong to me'. It's the beginings of ownership. It's the beginings of the end of love...

Do I stop loving you when you leave ? Do I stop loving you when you die ? If to leave someone you love is a deciet, then why is death not a deceit ? Just because the first has choice and the next does not ? Then we have to examine the questions of choice and og much deeper into what choices we do have,

Or get into ideas of Destiny and karmic influences that may rule who we meet, how we interact and what we do to each other.

Whether you believe that or not, can ownership ever be love ?

shekhar

Beautiful Lyrics

I have never heard this song.......but beautiful lyrics I am looking forward to hear this.......if someone know name of artist do tell me.


Sometimes I think I still can’t live without you.
A dull ache inside me
Realizes my yearning to be a part of your life.The years have come and gone.
I never hear your name.
I don’t even know anyone who knows you.Most of the time I believe I have changed I
Outgrown the ME who loved YOU.
Then,A song, a scene, a scent
Catches my heart off guard,And reminds me of you.Sometimes,
Even after all these years,I think I still can’t live without you.